A gentle rhythm for real family life
The Family Gratitude Journal was created for families who want more calm and connection — without adding another thing to their to-do list.
Designed for just 10 minutes a day, this gratitude journal for families helps parents and children pause, reflect, and reconnect through simple gratitude practices that fit into busy mornings and gentle bedtime routines.
This isn’t about perfection or positive thinking. It’s about creating small, meaningful moments where everyone feels seen, heard, and grounded.
Created by Rachel Whytcross, Family Wellbeing Specialist, Yoga and Mindfulness Educator, and Founder of Shine Om (Canberra, Australia).
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How using the Family Gratitude Journal works
Each day follows a simple rhythm:
- 5 minutes in the morning to set the tone for the day
- 5 minutes before bed to reflect, regulate, and reconnect
- Or 10 minutes at a time that works for your family — think around dinner time, after school or before bed.
Families can write, draw, talk, or simply notice together — making it suitable for different ages, moods, and energy levels. For example, tonight, my eldest daughter wrote that she was grateful to have seen the dog next door and drew a picture of it. That was our whole entry — and it was enough.
What this family gratitude practice looks like in real life
Morning (5 minutes) – often while we are getting dressed or after breakfast.
- A simple prompt to notice something good or set an intention for the day.
- Some days, we share one of the family affirmations
- Children can write, draw, or talk about their response.
Evening (5 minutes) – usually at dinner or around the kitchen while dinner is being prepared
- A gentle reflection on the day — what felt good, what helped, or what they appreciated.
- A moment for parents and children to reconnect before bedtime.
Over time, these small daily pauses build a rhythm of calm, emotional awareness, and connection at home. Check out the clip below to view what our family gratitude practice looks like when we use the gratitude journal for kids under 4.
What’s inside the Family Gratitude Journal
- 52 weekly gratitude challenges to gently guide the year
- Daily write-or-draw pages for flexibility across ages
- Dedicated gratitude journal for kids pages with mood faces to support emotional expression
- Playful family activities, including:
- Gratitude Bingo
- Gratitude Jar
- Recipe of Appreciation
- Memory Lane reflections
- Monthly and seasonal reflection pages
- End-of-year family review
- 31 family affirmations to support connection and emotional regulation
- An “Example Day” to help families start immediately
Who this journal is perfect for
Parents often pause because they’re unsure whether the product is right for their situation. And I am here to tell you that this gratitude journal for families is perfect for;
- Parents and carers of children aged approximately 3–10 years
- Families wanting a simple connection-focused daily ritual
- Parents looking for a gentle tool to support emotional awareness
- Educators, therapists, and wellbeing practitioners
- Classrooms, therapy spaces, and homeschool families
Children and adults are encouraged to participate together, though older children can also use the journal independently.
What this journal is not
- It is not a clinical or medical tool
- It does not require perfect consistency
- It is not about “fixing” emotions
This is a wellness and educational resource designed to support co-regulation, reflection, and family connection, as well as a family gratitude practice.
Family Gratitude Journal – A 10-Minute Daily Ritual for Calm & Connection
A full-colour family workbook designed to help parents and children slow down, reconnect, and build gratitude into everyday life. The Family Gratitude Journal creates a simple 10-minute daily rhythm — five minutes at breakfast and five before bed — supporting calm, emotional regulation, and connection for the whole family.
What families often say
What families often tell me
“We started using it before bed, and it has become our quiet moment together after busy days.”
“My child prefers drawing instead of writing, and the journal makes that completely okay.”
“It’s the first gratitude practice we’ve actually kept doing.”
How to purchase
You can purchase the Family Gratitude Journal directly here or via Amazon.
If purchasing through Shine Om, books are carefully packed and shipped from Canberra, Australia, within 48 hours, and only small batches are printed at a time.
A gentle note
People hesitate because they worry the product might sit unused. There’s no “right way” to use this journal.
Some days, families write; some days, they draw; and some days, they simply talk through the prompts together. And some days, myself included, we don’t do anything at all – and that’s ok!
The goal isn’t perfection — it’s creating small moments of connection that feel doable in real life.
👉 Bonus resources
Access free companion downloads to support your gratitude practice:
https://shineom.com.au/calm-resources-for-kids
Family Gratitude Journal – A 10-Minute Daily Ritual for Calm & Connection
A full-colour family workbook designed to help parents and children slow down, reconnect, and build gratitude into everyday life. The Family Gratitude Journal creates a simple 10-minute daily rhythm — five minutes at breakfast and five before bed — supporting calm, emotional regulation, and connection for the whole family.
Many families pair the journal with our Shine Om Mindful Colouring Book.
Product details
- Format: Full-colour workbook
- Size: 8.5” × 11” (A4-equivalent)
- Length: Approximately 160 pages
- Language: Australian English
- Created by: Rachel Whytcross, Family Wellbeing Specialist and Educator, Shine Om (Canberra, Australia)
- Age recommendation: Best suited for ages 3–10 with a grown-up; adaptable for older children, classrooms, and therapy settings.
- Materials: Printed workbook, full colour, soft cover.
- Care: Designed for regular daily use. Pens, pencils, crayons, or markers may be used. These are not provided in the purchase of this journal.
Learn More About The Family Gratitude Journal
If you’d like to explore the ideas behind the Family Gratitude Journal in more depth, I’ve shared a number of conversations on the Breathe, Laugh, Parent — The Shine Om Podcast.
These episodes unpack the thinking behind the journal, including why small daily rituals matter, how gratitude supports emotional regulation in children, and how families can build calm, connected rhythms into everyday life.
You might enjoy starting with:
• Why 10 Minutes a Day Matters More Than Perfection
A reflection on the origin of the journal and why small, consistent practices can create meaningful shifts in family life.
• The Nervous System and Parenting
Understanding how co-regulation works and why simple moments of connection can help children feel safe, seen, and supported.
• Building Calm Into Your Family’s Day
Practical ways to weave mindfulness and creativity into everyday routines without adding pressure.
These conversations are a beautiful companion to the journal and offer a deeper look at the philosophy behind the practices inside.
You can listen to the podcast here: