Self care is the act of giving time, focus and energy to ones self. It’s a gesture of self love by doing something that positively affects the mind, body and soul. It is not a luxury but is necessary for maintaining good mental and emotional well-being.
With the increased pressures of work, lack of human connection, restricted social interaction and increased demands and expectations to consistently be ‘achieving’ its not uncommon to hear people expressing how stressed, anxious and overworked they are feeling. Unfortunately for most of us, it is only when we reach this point that we then turn to looking after ourselves when in fact self care needs to be a part of our everyday routine. It is essential in order to maintain a balanced mind and body and ensure optimal mental wellness.
Therefore it is crucial to ensure each and everyone of us is doing something everyday for US. It doesn’t have to be lavish, luxurious or even cost anything. It just needs to be something that nourishes, balances and calms the mind and body.
This May I have made it ‘ Me May’ focusing on me time and a whole lot of self love. I had hit the point of burn out due to consistently meeting the needs of others and prioritising my work life. This is what has been in my top 5 self care toolkit that I’ve been focusing intently on at the moment:
1. Breathing- it may sound simple but the power of deep, focused and controlled breathing is remarkable.
2. Hot baths – with essential oils and Epson salts are making these cold nights so much more bearable. I have created, and I am now selling, my own essential oils blend called Nighty Night. It is the perfect combination of pure essential oils to aid with sleep and relaxation.
Did you know that hot baths have been proven to aid with sleep? This is due to our body temperate heating up and by providing adequate time for your body to cool down when we get out of the bath it can help regulate our circadian rhythms. Neat huh! If you need a bit more evidence to justify your long hot baths to your hubby share this article from Men’s Health with them. You need, it’s science!
3. Yoga – focusing on self practice and I cannot get enough of Yin! I love it so much I will soon be sharing an article with you too.
4. Essential Oils- the healing properties of these oils are mind blowing. I love using them and reaping the benefits so much that I have started selling my own blends. Head on over to our page Shine Om Essentials to find out more and to make your purchase today.
5. Nature – Mother Earth is our greatest healer. Spending time with her either in the garden, wandering or sitting in the sunlight is soothing for the soul.
I have been blessed with wisdom from the Shine Om community who have shared their favourite ways to practice self care. Here are some others ways that our community display self love and devotion; Meditation, Mindfulness practices, Crystal Therapy, Fueling the body with nutritious foods, exercising, surrounding yourself with supportive people, making time for a hot cup of tea, Astral Float for some zen time, making uninterrupted time to spend with loved ones, reading, colouring, gardening, self massage, cooking, drawing, booking in massages and pampering, walking around the lake and listening to a podcast or favourite music (I love The Sacred Womb Podcast and Wellness Women Radio).
The list is endless and feel free to add any or all of the above to your wellness toolkit. I would recommend choosing just a few to focus on at a time. Self care shouldn’t be an overwhelming thought so do what comes naturally and easily for you.
My advice for if you are unsure as to where to start with your toolkit is to answer te following questions for yourself;
- What do you love doing for you?
- What does your body need?
- When will you schedule ‘Me time’ into your daily routine?
I would love to hear what’s in your top 5 self care priorities at the moment. Comment below and let’s create a bank of self love action.
I would love to hear more about your experiences so feel free to connect with us on Facebook and Instagram or comment below. Don’t forget to get in touch if you would like to purchase my essential oil blend Nighty Night.
If you would like to learn more about self care and the importance of maintaining mental health then head on over to my website Spirit Quest Travel and check out my article How an Archibald feature invoked a conversation about anxiety and mental wellness.